After reading all the horrible reviews of this movie, I wasn’t really sure that I would like it when Master-Sir told me we were going to see it. So I set myself up to be disappointed, maybe even angry. But I would be there for my Owner and smile when He looked my way.

But none of what I read here was in the movie.
I mean, no non-consent, no manipulation by Mister Grey. None of the “abuse” that so many warned us about. Maybe I see “abuse” differently than most.

I saw a movie about a well-intentioned, young and nieve woman who was going to do a roommate a favor and interview the one man who seemed to be the most opposite of her.

Could such a set up be possible? Yes. I remember in college, reading many articles about those hard to nail down executives who don’t normally give interviews. Especially for school newspapers. Yet, they occasionally will throw a small press publication a bone just for fun and giggles to see where it would go.

She enters an office filled with hot ladies that wear skimpy dresses and walk around looking sexy all the time. If my Owner had all that money and power, He said he would definitely look for the best-dressed ladies with the right experience to fill His business up. Why not?? In today’s world, there are a lot of them around and in that environment, the women will do their best to out-sex the other in dressing for work.

As for her falling into this “non-consent” relationship and being manipulated by the all-powerful Mr Grey.. I saw her negotiate her way into the red room. I saw her request to know more, to experience more. She demanded He gives her the worst. I would assume that’s more topping from the bottom than being abused. Right?

My Owner said it best: Most women today forgot or never knew what it was like to enter a relationship without barriers, without baggage, walls or long lists of demands that needed to be met before they could go forward. Her, it was negotiated. The path was laid out and she approved of it

In this case, you had a young woman who was a virgin. Yes, they still do exist. I work with one in my resort. So she has no baggage from a previous bad relationship. She has no barriers put up that the man must break down before moving forward. She was new to it all and wanted to experience it with a man who knew how to do it all. She wanted to see why BDSM was what He said it was.

She Wanted To Properly Learn It All

I would have loved to have lost my virginity to a man who knew what he wanted, knew how to take it, and knew how to make it memorable. Instead, most women lost their cherry to a flunky, misguided, inexperienced high school kid we thought was The One!

She wanted to see if she could enter His world and get Him to come to hers. She was into the power play just as much as He was.

Finally, the real point of it all. If you were a 22-year-old virgin who just spent 4 years and a $100,000 in student loans to sit through classes where the liberal elite professors tried to fill your head with utopian dreams of mush; Your fellow students are now eager to look at unpaid internships, bottom level job prospects (if any jobs at all), suddenly you get a chance to be taken into the real world by a dashing, rich and powerful man who could show you what it all really meant, would you really say no?? I doubt that you would really turn him down…

Anastasia was in full control of the adventure she was on the entire time… She left Him at the end just as it started. On Her terms.

It was a nice, entertaining movie. Now, if you went there to learn about the dark side of BDSM, yes, you were very disappointed. But it was your own fault.

My Owner summed it up best “do you go to a Rambo movie to learn about gun control?? No!! It’s a Movie. Enjoy it” I did. We Did!

Did you get to see it?? Your thought??