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Master & Slave Talk. Have Sex

I know, not an original way to start a blog post and the title is pretty boring. A Master talks with His slave then has sex with His slave. Ok? But this was not a normal talk and the sex was pretty amazing considering the circumstances. Some may say after reading this that it was “Pity Sex” the Master had for His slave. I don’t care. it was sex, it was great and we enjoyed it together!

All of this came after I made my last post about Missing Him. By the time I was able to finish the post and make it go live, we had already had a small discussion on its topic and He agreed that we would have a date night out to discuss it. I felt bad because He was really enjoying His time with the Pretty Brunette, and I did not mean to interrupt her visit for Him to tend to me. But I needed some time to talk with Him or I was going to go really bat-shit crazy on Him! Making it into a date night was His idea. So I could not say No?

Thank You to the Pretty Brunette

She did have a really bad Friday at her work. So I know she was really wanting to spend a wonderful evening by the pool with a few friends and Her Man, my Owner. She sacrificed all that so this lowly slave could have some special time with her Owner to discuss her supposed mental health. Just for the record, I never expected it to end with sex. However, it was very much appreciated and welcomed!

So on Friday evening, while it was still a warm 110 degrees out at 5pm, He had me wear a simple white sundress, a black colored bra that would show thru and my sandals. He surprised me with a beautiful floppy beach sunhat to wear. Making it kind of a carefree evening feel. He even made the reservations at our favorite restaurant on the Strip, the Peppermill. And He drove! I was not sure what He was expecting, but I was not expecting all of this.

The Pretty brunette made it a point to please enjoy ourselves and for me to be nice to her man. But to enjoy the evening.. She was going to have a quiet night poolside with a lady friend who is in town from her office.

we arrived in record time since traffic to the Strip is now light and easy. After being seated and ordering, I had Him read my last post. I really wasn’t sure if this would be the place to do it, but it worked out because we were alone in a corner booth and the social distancing they have in place made it very romantic and private. It helped that we had our usual waitress who leaves us alone a lot more then she would a normal tourist couple.

Master and Slave Connect Again

He assured me I was not being the spoiled slave. He reminded me of the times in bed He put the rubber bands on my boobs, made me sleep or try to sleep with a big anal plug as well as other torturous things He did to me in that bed and elsewhere. So I was not being spoiled. Well cared for? Maybe. But certainly not spoiled.

The quarantine that we are experiencing here in Las Vegas mixed with the other issues surrounding Las Vegas, the resorts, our lives, and the business side of life, has put a lot of pressure on Him and apparently me too. The emotions are not being well cared for or properly fed. So He understood where my issues were coming from.

I was allowed to leave the table to use the ladies’ room. On return, I had to show Him I was not wearing panties and even a time to flash Him my bra. He was making this a love/hate dinner date that was driving me crazy with laughter, fun, and serious discussions all at the same time… We were actually getting a lot of things sorted out that maybe neither of us realized was building up inside our relationship.

In the end, He promised to keep up the erotic torture. He promised to keep up the humiliation in asking friends to just use me as a cum-dump. He promised to watch me more closely to know when I am having an emotional issue. He also promised to punish me if I ever let an issue get this bad. That I need to be more open (?) with my own issues and to understand that even after all these years, I can be a bad slave and I can fail Him sometimes. That maybe I need to fail Him to know I am still human.

To stop being so serious in my dedication. He wants to learn more as well as to read me better in my emotions and my needs. We both need to grow more together. He acknowledged that maybe after all these years, He grew into just accepting my ways and my perfections. He told me that He needs to stop, look, and evaluate a little more closely more often. I am, after all, His pet, His prized property. A little more e observation on His part, He thinks is needed.

After dinner, a nice drive down the Strip to see the lights and the fountain show then home. Along the way, he made sure I was naked in the car and His cock was in my hand or in my mouth. Mostly in my mouth as we went home.

Home is Home

Pulling into the driveway, he opened my door and I walked naked into the garage then into the house. Not caring if anyone saw me. I was enjoying the time with my Owner being His slave. i almost forgot what caused this issue that led to a dinner date and me naked again!

The Pretty Brunette was in the pool with her beautiful friend, they both were enjoying the pool naked as Master-sir made introductions and I was sent for a round of drinks. As I sat in the shallow end of the pool, they frolicked, talked and enjoyed each other’s company for a few minutes. But Master-Sir apparently had other ideas. He ordered me to my bedroom. Immediately.

As I knelt on the floor beside my bed, not sure what i did to be ordered here or what punishment i may be in for. I heard Him come up the stairs and into my room. He cam ein, locked the door behind Him and started to play some smooth jazz. I was told to light some candles as He removed His clothing and lay on the bed.

I was lost, unsure what He had planned so i asked if i needed to get out the paddles? he told me no. He was there to fuck His slave. His cock was starting to grow hard as he ordered me to suck Him. That soon led to me being allowed to mount Him. To be on top. A position I rarely get to enjoy and consider it a reward for good behavior or something like that. I have nothing to be rewarded for, and asked why? He didn’t seem to mind as I did as told me to shut up and enjoy the ride. I did! Oh did I enjoy the ride. He even allowed me to have an orgasm before he came inside me.

He Loved Me

Then what were dim lights were changed to darkness and He changed positions so I could suck His cock clean. I was very kind and very slow in my worshiping of His cock. wanting to make sure He was properly clean and soft and ready for anything else. Then we cuddled. No other clean up, no going for a hot towel. Just his cock go cleaned and he pulled me to His side and wrapped His arms around my waste. I felt His fingers find my nipples as he twisted them a little. then nothing but His body against mine and hearing His soft rhythmic breathing.

Next thing i knew, it was 2am and the whole house was dark.. Master-Sir suddenly woke up and realized he needed to use the bathroom. Instead, He decided to use my mouth, before I realized i needed to use the bathroom. I got in my position on the floor and let His cock fill my mouth with his warm stream. Then as he pulled away, i was given permission to go downstairs and pee as well as wash my mouth out before returning.

When I returned, he kissed me and told me to follow Him into the Master bedroom. i was to spend the rest of the night sleeping on the floor on His side of the bed. Instead, we found the Master bed open. empty. Master-Sir went to the guest room and found the two ladies wrapped in each others arms and sleeping soundly.

Master-Sir whispered to me that I needed to be extra nice to them in the morning as he invited me to sleep with Him in His bed. where He fucked me again. He hasn’t been that horny for me in ages. Years maybe! I need to look. However, I was told not to read anything into it. He reminded me that He still has a nicer, tighter pussy to fuck for at least another 10 days. Yes, to be loved again while still be reminded of what your proper place in His life. I thanked Him for the honor and enjoyed the feeling of being loved as He wrapped Himself around me and fell asleep again.

I am Loved. I am Owned and I am Happy.

Seeing 50 Shades of Grey – What Happened to You?

After reading all the horrible reviews of this movie, I wasn’t really sure that I would like it when Master-Sir told me we were going to see it. So I set myself up to be disappointed, maybe even angry. But I would be there for my Owner and smile when He looked my way.

But none of what I read here was in the movie.
I mean, no non-consent, no manipulation by Mister Grey. None of the “abuse” that so many warned us about. Maybe I see “abuse” differently than most.

I saw a movie about a well-intentioned, young and nieve woman who was going to do a roommate a favor and interview the one man who seemed to be the most opposite of her.

Could such a set up be possible? Yes. I remember in college, reading many articles about those hard to nail down executives who don’t normally give interviews. Especially for school newspapers. Yet, they occasionally will throw a small press publication a bone just for fun and giggles to see where it would go.

She enters an office filled with hot ladies that wear skimpy dresses and walk around looking sexy all the time. If my Owner had all that money and power, He said he would definitely look for the best-dressed ladies with the right experience to fill His business up. Why not?? In today’s world, there are a lot of them around and in that environment, the women will do their best to out-sex the other in dressing for work.

As for her falling into this “non-consent” relationship and being manipulated by the all-powerful Mr Grey.. I saw her negotiate her way into the red room. I saw her request to know more, to experience more. She demanded He gives her the worst. I would assume that’s more topping from the bottom than being abused. Right?

My Owner said it best: Most women today forgot or never knew what it was like to enter a relationship without barriers, without baggage, walls or long lists of demands that needed to be met before they could go forward. Her, it was negotiated. The path was laid out and she approved of it

In this case, you had a young woman who was a virgin. Yes, they still do exist. I work with one in my resort. So she has no baggage from a previous bad relationship. She has no barriers put up that the man must break down before moving forward. She was new to it all and wanted to experience it with a man who knew how to do it all. She wanted to see why BDSM was what He said it was.

She Wanted To Properly Learn It All

I would have loved to have lost my virginity to a man who knew what he wanted, knew how to take it, and knew how to make it memorable. Instead, most women lost their cherry to a flunky, misguided, inexperienced high school kid we thought was The One!

She wanted to see if she could enter His world and get Him to come to hers. She was into the power play just as much as He was.

Finally, the real point of it all. If you were a 22-year-old virgin who just spent 4 years and a $100,000 in student loans to sit through classes where the liberal elite professors tried to fill your head with utopian dreams of mush; Your fellow students are now eager to look at unpaid internships, bottom level job prospects (if any jobs at all), suddenly you get a chance to be taken into the real world by a dashing, rich and powerful man who could show you what it all really meant, would you really say no?? I doubt that you would really turn him down…

Anastasia was in full control of the adventure she was on the entire time… She left Him at the end just as it started. On Her terms.

It was a nice, entertaining movie. Now, if you went there to learn about the dark side of BDSM, yes, you were very disappointed. But it was your own fault.

My Owner summed it up best “do you go to a Rambo movie to learn about gun control?? No!! It’s a Movie. Enjoy it” I did. We Did!

Did you get to see it?? Your thought??

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