Living a Consensual Non-Consent Lifestyle (CNC)

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The Rabbit Hole

In every relationship, a little rain must fall. So they say. Right now Las Vegas is in the middle of a week’s worth of rain.

Here at my Owner’s home, we are going down a rabbit hole unlike any other we have encountered. And it is testing our commitment to each other.

The other night, during one of my maintenance spanking’s, Master-Sir had my emotions going off in all directions as He asked me questions about our relationship.

He asked about the new rule where I am not allowed orgasms unless in front of him as well as others not cumming in my holes and I lost it. I got angry, upset and started to explain how it was not humiliations and I felt it certainly wasn’t obedience. To me, it was pure unwanted torture and abuse and not in any way that I liked it or enjoyed it.

In all the years He has owned me, I have been agreeable to anything He has asked me to do. I have never really objected to any of His rules or His commands. I may not like them ,but I obeyed because that’s what a good slave is supposed to do.

Master-Sir has earned my trust in Him and His commands. I know that no matter what He tells me to do, it will not to harm me. I can live with that. Even if I don’t like what He commands me to do, its made up by all the things He has me do that I really enjoy.

In the past, we have always talked about the issues that may have bothered me. But in this case, it was a new rule and with all that has been going on around us, we never had the time to just talk about it.

It’s also the one rule Ineeded time to understand. The men fuckl my pussy, but cum in my mouth. Or they stand in front of me and I watch as their cock twitches and send streams of cum everywhere but my mouth.

The main issue that I have is that I am there to please them. Make them enjoy using this fluffy old slave. And I enjoy feeling them shoot their reward on my holes and hear their sounds of pleasure as they unload in my holes. Sometimes its the grunts that I look forward to and the feeling that I have been of service to them.

If they do as He requests, they need to stop right as they are about to cum, change positions, then resume. That’s a lot of work for them and I think takes away the pleasure they have of using a cum-dump.

I have learned over the last couple of years, on how to temporarily mentally block my need for a orgasm when they are fucking me. I think I am pretty good at not needing one while I am being used. If I needed to, I used to be allowed to finger myself to one after I was alone. I’m ok with that.

We ended the maintenance spanking, He let me fall to the floor and into His arms, wrapped in a blanket. We didn’t talk for a couple of minutes until i was clear headed and explained my thoughts the best that I could.

I now prefer to focus more on their enjoyment, getting them to have more of a experience fucking one of my holes, them hearing me beg for more or telling them how wonderful it feels when they are using me as their cumdump.

Master-Sir did not like that I had previously told Him that withholding my orgasm, made me more submissive. And it does. But in this case, it has become more of me attempting to tolerate it. I have a feeling of being used in a way I didn’t like.

Yes, I am more submissive, I am more focused on fucking or sucking, but I feel an emotional void, an uneasy emptiness when they use my holes but not to the end.

I enjoy watching them end inside me, then get dressed and leave. I actually get a little emotional high when they dump inside me, smile at me and know they can leave without saying another word. No reciprocation, no nothing. Just use me and go about your day.

Under this new rule, it just breaks up the mental connection I/we have as they command me to open my holes to them. The way t is now, I don’t want to be used, I prefer to be used just as a domestic slave, not a sexual slave.

Its not easy to explain because I never had these feelings before. I have never felt like this, where I pray they don’t want to fuck me.

He knew I would suffer if they only used my holes but not cum in me. And it does drive me a little needy, a little crazy. It is painful. I just want a different way to feel the pain that He wants me to feel when I am being used.

Master-Sir wants me to go orgasm free for long periods of time. I get that. But I really want to feel them use me as much as they want without any restrictions. Its what I am here for, to be used and abused for their pleasures.

Is it worth ending or restricting our relationship over? The way I feel about it right now? Honestly? Yes. Its that much of a painful situation. I can’t deal with that void, the emptiness I am feeling. The loss of the mental, emotional connection I get when I am being used as their cumdump. Its too painful.

The rabbit hole was how I can feel the connection of being a faithful cumdump while I am also fulfilling His desire that I feel the pain and the humiliation in the way that we both have always enjoyed it.

I hope what I have said made sense. In my head, the feelings right now are painful, the need to be used and feel that I have pleased them/him overrides just about everything else in my world.

I am sure we will get through this and get back to a normal situation soon., I just needed ot get this off my chest and out there to understand it all.

Thank You,

Bitch Slave

Our Talk, My Orgasm

There have been and still are a lot of things happening around my Owner, the house, my job, his job: nothing terrible, just a lot of things to deal with. Las Vegas is in chaos as we prepare for the F1 Race in November. So both of our jobs are in chaos as well!

So I may have some old things I need to post. But I will tell you when they are past events. You will understand in a little while. Thank You.

Recently

Master-Sir and I had an open talk, and a lot of things were talked about and discussed. That is what I like about Him; we can talk like two normal people while still being Master and slave.

Since we started the maintenance spankings, I have never felt happier and more obedient in my life. I love it as much as He does. Difficult to understand how we have come closer to each other by Him beating my ass regularly and making me tell him things.

Being more obedient has led me into some deep corners of my mind and my slave soul. It makes me question everything I am doing and wonder how I can do it better. How can I be a better slave to Him?

Even the simple act of having these one-on-one conversations where we are both open and free to talk. I usually sit on the couch next to Him like husband/wife. I wouldn’t say I liked that; it didn’t feel right. So I sat on the floor at His side as we talked.

My Orgasm

Of all the things we talked about, the big one was my orgasm. Since the last time we had this chat, He decided I could have an orgasm any time that I felt I needed one. If I was being fucked, I had to let the man know when I was about to cum, and they could stop me. But if not, I was free to have one (or more).

That was fun the first few weeks, but it bothered me. That is not what we agreed to. I feel it was wrong to give me that freedom, the ability to make that decision.

I’m the slave; He is supposed to be in charge of me, look after me, and guide me in His life. I’m not here to enjoy being on my own. Thats not what drives me to serve.

I was missing that control. The pain and the agony of having to suffer for Him. To have to wait until HE allowed it to happen if He ever allowed it to happen. I want someone else to make that call for meā€”thats not my job.

I am there to be used for their pleasures; my pleasure is for me to see them smile after using me. To thank HIm for allowing them to fuck my holes.

In a strange way, I guess that’s how I get off by not being allowed to get off. To have Them tell me if I can and when I can.

Master-Sir has promised to take back that power. That made me a very happy slave. They are, once again, HIS Orgasms.

More to come

Love always,

A very happy and well-owned slave!

Maintenance Spanking Continue

In a few days, it will be two months since I asked my Owner for some mandatory spankings. What some call maintenance spankings.

In that time, there have been three other spankings and there will be more coming. They are painful yet they are cathartic. They also remind me of who I am and what I am. The pain reminds me that I am here for His pleasure, not mine and that pain is just another part of my service to my Owner.

The first one ended with my Owner brutally fucking my ass without care for my needs or level of pain. He was really in a “don’t give a fuck” mood when He started to fuck my poor ass. when I recovered, I was a mess of tears, wetness, and a desire to love Him even more.

In each of the following sessions, I was not chained or tied to the post. I was there on my own. No need for bondage.

However, I was looking forward to being savagely raped afterward. From the first time, it was an unbelievable feeling o be used like that after such an experience of being beaten and made to answer questions.

But Master-Sir reminded me, after I was a puddle of emotions, crying and begging for more, that punishment should be punishment, and not be a time for sexual use. Even if it was as rough and painful as it was, it was still me being used for sex. And He would not be doing that again. For now!

However, I was treated to a nice bath and fell asleep with Him holding me and kissing me. Telling me how much He loves having me as His slave.

The one thing that I enjoy about these sessions is that after each swat of the paddle, I am supposed to answer a personal question about my life as His slave. And He has commented that even when I am at my worst; I am crying, screaming from the pain, and trying to remember the number, I can answer the question without delay.

I guess its because I am who I am. i am His slave and I know my reason to exist is to make His life more comfortable, with no worry or concern fo my happiness. Because i am happy when I am serving His needs and desires.

I am His slave. I belong to Him.

I am an Owned slave.

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