Living a Consensual Non-Consent Lifestyle (CNC)

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No Orgasms, Better sex

Recently, I was talking with another slave online about being orgasm free and how when I am being fucked, it drives me crazy and makes me more of a submissive than I already am.

She has been orgasm free for two years, and so I wanted to know how it felt. She told me she doesn’t miss them, and every couple of months, her Master tells her to have one. She either can’t finish, or it’s so small that it’s anticlimactic. That’s why she doesn’t count them.

In a previous post, I explained how I fought against having an orgasm while my owner was trying to get me to have one. I won, but I was also punished because I purposely pulled His cock out of my pussy. I did that to let the feeling simmer down, and I quickly put my ass back in place for him to continue fucking me.

I have come to the point where that’s what I do. I don’t pull out anymore because then I get punished, but I physically struggle not to have one. In doing that, he enjoys my internal battle, which seems to cheer him on.

It’s almost like a game I am playing with him. You can look at it as foreplay or a semi-romantic gesture to give Him more enjoyment. And that has become my point. My fighting it and he has resulted in more pleasure for him.

Grabbing my hair so I don’t move. Pinning me to the bed as I struggle to slow His use of my holes down. More, more brutal orgasms for him, more cum for me to have and to swallow.

And giving him more pleasure as he fucks me, isn’t that my goal?

I know that my Boss has commented on that. He gets harder and longer when I struggle. My moaning, he tells me, is deeper and rougher than before. That means I get to be used. I am only interested in hearing Him cum.

Then in between fucks, I am to edge often. Get too close to the point, then stop. In doing this, I see him happier; he desires and uses me more. I get filled with his cum more. I also see that wonderful smile, knowing it’s because I served him.

My friend asked me to take a minute and think, am I missing them, or is it just because I talked about it so much that maybe I should miss them? Orgasms have been part of my talk, but maybe not how I feel.

And it’s scary to realize she has a point. I’m no longer actively desiring them. When I start to feel them build, I fight against them to win. I now enjoy the edging part more, the part where His cock fulfills me and satisfies me, so I don’t need to prove anything to him or me by screaming their name as they use me.

Just for clarification. Me not having an orgasm is what makes sex better for the man. It’s not the man who is having better sex without an orgasm; I need that cum to survive, to know I did my job well.

I hope that makes sense!

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This is my life, and I love it.
Love,
Bitch slave

(please leave me your comments and thoughts or questions)

Orgasm Free Punishment

Master and I could not pinpoint the exact date of my last orgasm; we know it was within a day or two of today. So, we chose yesterday as being my fourth month of being orgasm free. Not that I am celebrating or anything. He is; he loves to watch me suffer for this pleasure. Last year, I was able to go for six months with an orgasm. Master has made it clear that we made four; six will be a breeze, and soon, I will be orgasm-free forever.

Monday was our first day back from seeing my family. That is a story unto itself! We/I found a way to help me not want an orgasm, but it came with strings—a punishment.

He told me during the day and into the night that He was going to fuck me until I had an orgasm. That way, he had a good reason to use the new wooden paddle he had recently bought. Not that he needed one.

I saw this as a challenge. It had been over a week since He last used me, so I was hoping He would be rough and demanding on me while using my holes for His pleasures. And He was. Do I know my owner or what?

While He was fucking me doggy style, my hands were cuffed in front of me; he was pulling on my ponytail to the point I thought my hair was coming out. Master was also pressing a bullet vibrator on my clit on high and swinging my weighted nipple clamps. I was rolling from pain to pleasure to pain and back again. I was also soaking the sheets.

It was getting hot and rough. He was fucking me in both holes, alternating, so I was always off guard. I was enjoying the challenge of not having one while he was determined that I was going to have one. The more He pushed to make me cum, the more I struggled not to.

As I was reaching my peak, screaming, moaning, and begging for more. I knew it was going to happen, He pulled back, so I pushed forward till His cock fell out. I quickly moved my ass back in place so He could start again, but at least my need to cum had decreased enough.

Yes, He was upset and rougher on me once he got back in rhythm. Pulling my hair and whispering in my ear, I was in for one hell of a punishment. I was smiling as I was also crying in pain and pleasure.

Finally, I felt Him shoot his load in my sopping wet pussy. He pushed me down and fell onto top of me. We breathed heavily as I thanked Him for using me like that.

He rolled me on my back and moved up so His wet cock was in my face. I sucked him clean as He reminded me of my upcoming punishment.

Once He got his breath back and I fetched him a bottle of water, He pulled me by my hair into the garage and hooked me to the punishment pole.

I took my punishment with pride. 75 swats from the heavy paddle. It wasn’t easy, but I did it. I know I will have difficulty walking for the next couple of days and will need to use a pillow to sit on. (smiling)

Yes, I was punished for pulling off His cock. I accept that punishment over being punished for having an orgasm.

I can proudly say that I was NOT being punished for having an orgasm. And that is important.


Month four to forever. Master-Sir is very serious about making sure that I never have another orgasm. And from this little exercise, I know I am going to be in a lot of trouble for other things, but it won’t be for having an orgasm!

Thank you for reading

Bitch Slave

Our Talk, My Orgasm

There have been and still are a lot of things happening around my Owner, the house, my job, his job: nothing terrible, just a lot of things to deal with. Las Vegas is in chaos as we prepare for the F1 Race in November. So both of our jobs are in chaos as well!

So I may have some old things I need to post. But I will tell you when they are past events. You will understand in a little while. Thank You.

Recently

Master-Sir and I had an open talk, and a lot of things were talked about and discussed. That is what I like about Him; we can talk like two normal people while still being Master and slave.

Since we started the maintenance spankings, I have never felt happier and more obedient in my life. I love it as much as He does. Difficult to understand how we have come closer to each other by Him beating my ass regularly and making me tell him things.

Being more obedient has led me into some deep corners of my mind and my slave soul. It makes me question everything I am doing and wonder how I can do it better. How can I be a better slave to Him?

Even the simple act of having these one-on-one conversations where we are both open and free to talk. I usually sit on the couch next to Him like husband/wife. I wouldn’t say I liked that; it didn’t feel right. So I sat on the floor at His side as we talked.

My Orgasm

Of all the things we talked about, the big one was my orgasm. Since the last time we had this chat, He decided I could have an orgasm any time that I felt I needed one. If I was being fucked, I had to let the man know when I was about to cum, and they could stop me. But if not, I was free to have one (or more).

That was fun the first few weeks, but it bothered me. That is not what we agreed to. I feel it was wrong to give me that freedom, the ability to make that decision.

I’m the slave; He is supposed to be in charge of me, look after me, and guide me in His life. I’m not here to enjoy being on my own. Thats not what drives me to serve.

I was missing that control. The pain and the agony of having to suffer for Him. To have to wait until HE allowed it to happen if He ever allowed it to happen. I want someone else to make that call for me—thats not my job.

I am there to be used for their pleasures; my pleasure is for me to see them smile after using me. To thank HIm for allowing them to fuck my holes.

In a strange way, I guess that’s how I get off by not being allowed to get off. To have Them tell me if I can and when I can.

Master-Sir has promised to take back that power. That made me a very happy slave. They are, once again, HIS Orgasms.

More to come

Love always,

A very happy and well-owned slave!

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