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Her Dreams Not her Life

If you are expecting some sappy love filled blog post for valentines Day. Sorry, we don’t go there!! I know I am a well loved Owned slave. What more do i need?

Instead, I have an update!

Some of you have asked for a follow-up to my post about a friend (Slave Lisa) staying with us who wanted to explore her submissive side and her dark desire to be a slave. Her beauty and her high-class job have prevented her from living out any part of her desire to serve a worthy man.

Yes, she is very beautiful and as you can expect, she has always used that beauty, along with her charm and her brains. She took that all and has built a very rewarding career selling pharmaceuticals to doctors and to clinics.

She was suppose to be with us for a month. End of January to the end of February. To her credit, she almost made it the full month before finally calling “Red” and heading back to her comfy, beautiful life in San Diego.

No harm was done. we all parted s friends. She and I still talk and chat often. It just wasn’t what she was expecting and she was glad to have found that pout in such a well protected and loving environment. .

What Happened?

She has asked me not to divulge too many details about what she did and what all had happened other than to explain she found her dreams were best left as dreams. She did say that she enjoyed being able to at least escape her life for a few weeks and become something and someone else for a while.

The first big surprise was when she discovered that my Owner was not a pushover. She was beautiful, no doubt. but He was not going to let that get in His way of showing her what it’s like to be a slave to Him.

He had a slave who is fluffy and could not compare to her beauty. But it wasn’t beauty that He wanted and from what they had talked about, she wanted to experience the life of a slave, not the life of a beauty queen playing a pretty submissive.

She got to see what real life was like for us other people who lived their life on skills, not on beauty. What surprised me was how surprised she was to learn just how far her beauty got her in life when she ran into a man who did not fall for her charms and batting eyelashes while demanding that she clean the entire bathroom. She found out that He really expected her to be naked all the time including her time cleaning toilets!

In sex, He would start by using her, fucking one of her holes while I was made to watch. Then as he was building up her orgasm, He would pull out and shove His cock into my throat to finish himself off. Or He would start using my holes, get me moaning and ready for His cum and he would pull out to shove His cock into one her holes.

This was like a giant shock to her system to think that any man would NOT want to use Her exclusively for His sexual pleasures.

It was on this point where we agreed. I thought with her here, He would ignore me 100% and use her for sex. Why Not? She was smaller, not as heavy (!) She was tighter in all the holes and she had a body most men would kill to worship. But instead, He used us back and forth. It drove her crazy!

The things she and I talked about were like two high school girlfriends. For me, that was so strange, because no girl that beautiful would have ever talked to me in high school. I was, like i am now, fluffy (fat). But here we were. Talking like real girlfriends about our lives.

She was brutally honest in her talks and that really helped us both. She talked about how she now sees what others saw. That she always got whatever she wanted based on her beauty. Until now. and it really hurt her the first few times when Master-Sir took me to bed and sent her to another room to sleep.

But she also told me she saw true love. Two people committed to being together and are open about their lives with each other. The fact that my Owner, in her mind, really does love me and protects me like no other man she has ever met. She wants a man like that!

She also had a life-changing realization. That this experiment where she got to touch one of her dreams and being used not as a beauty queen, but as some ordinary sex slave, she realized her life has not been right. She realized that she is not living her life in any form. But she is living the life others made for her. The life her Mom (who from pictures, was also a hottie) wanted for her. And what other people expected her to be. It’s not what really makes her happy and she saw me being happy beyond any dreams she ever had about happiness. She wants “That”.

The Final Event

In the end, when she knew she wasn’t going to make it the full thirty days, she decided to just let it all go. She knew she was in a safe environment. She could be that wild child she claims she was once in college.

Super Bowl Sunday, my Boss made me work. So she was on her own for being the house slave for the Big Game. She would have to be naked in a house filled with strange men drinking and watching sports. Six or so friends that Master-Sir wanted to spend the day with. My Owner talked ot her about what normally happens. I am used to serve them drinks, snacks and be half time entertainment. Plus the men get to use me for sex.

She, in her mind, had already checked out. So she agreed to be the sex toy for them with a limit to one blowjob per person. She was already naked, expecting to be felt up, touched, pawed, and whatever else. (not that they would be that disrespectful) So why not be her old college slut?

When it all came down, she told me she just went into the deep end like she supposedly did a few times in college and she let my Owner dictate the rules. She got to play the sex toy, serving wench, and other things during the game and be the half time entertainment. She got to be the center of entertainment and be used not for her beauty, but for her holes. Her sexual uses.

She got to live on the wild side one last time. And she enjoyed it. Saying it will be great masturbation material for the next few years. But for the entire experience, that it was, too much slave stuff and not enough couple stuff. That’s what she wants.

She was actually very happy when she was explaining this to me. She was happy, healthy, and wanting to move on with her new life and newfound desires. She found what she really wanted. and it was what I had. A happy submissive relationship with a wonderful, dominant man.

So I pointed her towards some great websites that focus more on Domestic Discipline (DD), as well as some websites and forums that will help her explore the Head of Household (HoH) kink. She thinks that’s more her style.

And for me, I got to see just what a wonderful owner I belong to and what a wonderful life I am living. It is where I am suppose to be. I am very well Owned. Even she agreed that I am beyond just a “slave” but that I am His Property to the core. I am Owned and I am loved!

Thank You for the comments and the questions! I love to know what you think!

She is Not What I expected

So were are into our first week with Slave Lisa here for training. I am still the lowly House slave as I like it. Slave Lisa has been a doll to be around. Yes, I am using that cute, feminine language I am not used to but she just brings it out in me the more we talk. She has been so unlike I had imagined her to be.

She is this pretty little thing that has built a pretty nice career using her brains, her feminine charms and her desire to be the best. She is used to getting her way and not being corrected by men in how she pleases them. Until she met my Owner. Who really doesn’t care for her charms and her ways of doing things because she is here to please Him, not Him to please her. Something she is not used to.

I have learned that when I am at home and they are working that I need to be careful of who is where and what they are doing. Slave Lisa is on webcam frequently talking to other people. They see a professionally dressed woman, not knowing she is nude from the waist down and is wearing a butt plug. or that her ass is bruised and sore from her/our last punishment session. realizing she is nude from the waist down.

Master-Sir has been doing a lot more office cam chats with clients and co-workers. So I need to walk carefully so i am not on their cams. What is surprising me si that I have not gone completely psicho as i watch her give my owner a blowjob under His desk while He is on the webcam trying to talk to a friend. Maybe its because it is her style of sloppy, not really pleasurable blowjob that He is tolerating while talking. Or maybe I have moved past it and just want Him to be happy. Maybe i am that way because its been twenty days since anyone has used any of my holes except my mouth.

Nobody has yet tried to fuck my pussy or ass since the rule change. They all have been happy just fucking my face and letting me swallow their cum without making me lick it up or have it on my face. (yuk). But my pussy is really missing its use and I am getting more submissive and obedient. Maybe more mousy is the term. I am trying to focus on my service, not the ache between my legs.

Night Two

On the second night of her stay, Master Sir was fucking her doggie style. He was really enjoying having this young thing with a tight pussy and firm tits to fuck like that. He even teased her about a little anal and she properly told Him “if you desire Master”. But He knew she wasn’t ready for that yet. He came loud and proud. Telling her not to move as He unloaded inside her. i knew she wanted more. But accepted the command to stay.

He pulled out and called me on the bed to properly lick her pussy clean. As she tried not to move, Master Sir shoved His cock down my throat to clean. I loved that feeling and i wanted more of it. But I did what I was told to do as I sucked the juices off His cock He pulled out of my mouth as I moaned for more. But he wanted me to move under her. As she was leaking His cum.

She stayed in position as I slid under her and she sat up to put her filled pussy over my mouth. Making it a bit difficult to breathe, but I didn’t care as I got to taste my Owner’s cum again.

From the moaning and her hip movements, she was starting to really enjoy my servicing her pussy. I don’t like doing this other than with Miss Tina, but she was enjoying it as much as i was enjoying tasting my owner again. Maybe she was enjoying it a little too much as Master-Sir slapped her ass with the paddle. Then I was sent to sleep on the mattress on the floor.

Not Right?

She got mad at Him. Noticing my slow movements and painful feelings as I moved to my place on the floor. She said slave or no slave, this was not right. The bed was large enough for all of us or one of us slaves can go to our room. But it’s not right that i am on the hard, cold floor ( it was a cold night for las vegas) and she was in the warm bed. Imagine that, two slaves to keep the Master warm sounded pretty good. I tried to speak, but Master-Sir shut me off quickly.

Master-Sir allowed her to speak her peace then made her a deal. Two slaves, same rules? No pampering the new slave in training? Other than the work/dress privileges’, she will agree to live her slave training with me as an equal slave. we work and serve Him together. We were already punished together, so why not share everything else? Everything? yes, she agreed, everything. I tried again, But Master Sir was not letting me talk. He agreed to her rule change and then had His own surprise. Both slaves to her room to sleep. Be back kneeling at His side at 7am.

My Owner banished both us slaves to her bedroom! we were both surprised at that command. But we obeyed. Giving Him a kiss good night, I asked if this is what he wanted and it was. We obeyed. But that’s another post…

Day One Two Slaves

Slave Lisa arrived Saturday. And things went very well considering how this is a new experience for all of us.

Slave Lisa (the friend of the Pretty Burnette/ Miss Tina), is a beautiful lady who is used to the finer things in life and being pampered by the men she works with and the men she sells to (pharmaceutical rep). She has accepted herself as the slave that she wants to become. And now she wants, while she is working remotely, to experience what it’s like being Owned, or at least being put under the control of a generous Master for a few weeks to see if her dreams really match reality.

Master-Sir has already made a few changes in my life that I am still getting used to. It’s mostly about a higher protocol in how I serve Him. And the final change that I know of, were restrictions on my pussy. men who are allowed to use any of my holes for sex, but are being asked to not “finish there”. In other words, pound me with your cock then use my face, mouth, or floor for your receptacle. The face thing is new and thankfully nobody has done it yet.

Master-Sir has stopped using my pussy entirely since the first week in January. eek!

She Arrives

Slave Lisa arrived Saturday. Driving here from Kansas City. I feel better now that I can and was told to call her Slave Lisa, because that’s what she was coming here to be. A slave in training.

She was her perky, beautiful self. She tried to hide her fear or uneasiness about what she had agreed to, but she still was properly dressed as an executive woman would be pulling up in her sporty Lexus. The clean, well-maintained car pulled into the driveway and the entire scene just looked like an adult version of a young girl’s Barbie days. The prim and proper skinny girl in the low heels, nylons, short skirt, white blouse that gave off a sense of sexuality yet professional “hand-off” persona protecting her perky 34 C breasts in a padded bra. Her hair in a bun, the Ray-ban sunglasses, and the name brand, out of my league leather purse off her shoulder.

She parked in the driveway and I greeted her properly at the door. My heart was racing and the butterflies in my stomach were also having races. She stepped in like she owned the place. Something I know from her last visit, is just how she runs her world and the same I get from Miss Tina. I knelt to welcome her to the house, to remove her shoes, and to properly kiss her feet. Master-Sir had other ideas.

From that first moment, my Owner was watching all this from the Livingroom windows. The moment that I knelt to welcome her, he stopped me in my tracks. He ordered her to return to her car, park it out on the street then enter using the garage, like the slave she will be. She can remove her clothing there. next to mine on the shelf. Then enter and meet Him in His office. Naked. I was ordered to get Him a drink as He walked away.

She and I both were kind of stunned at the way it all started. She tried to say something but my Owner reminder her of His order as He walked away, into the office. She did as she was told while i went to do as I was told. After serving Him His drink, I was ordered to stand in the corner of the office opposite Him. I would only be able to hear what they talked about, not allowed to say or see anything.

I heard her walk into His office, greeted Him then sat down. He changed that, She was to kneel at His side. She stated this was not agreed to and that they needed to finalize the agreement. My owner took that as a demand. As with me, He doesn’t need her but will accept her. He can live without her since He has me. But He will be fair and let her sit, for now, naked in the office chair. He made it clear that this is the last part of their negotiation and outlining the rules. It will be done as adults and that’s why he has been so firm from the start. She agreed and understood His reasons for being so firm from the first “hello”

For now, they agreed that unless on Zoom or office chat, she will work in the office topless. She will be naked anytime she outside the office and not on the office cam. She just feels she needs something to remind her of her professional status. She will address Him as “Sir” or “Master” she will be called slave Lisa, nothing else unless it’s work-related.

He will have access to all her holes, but not to offer her to others for sexual purposes. She is not used to anal and may not be able to handle too much at the beginning. She loves oral. (That’s when I started to panic) Master-Sir informed her that she will be His main sexual toy for the time that she is here and expect to be used often in many different ways. She will be allowed to call “yellow” to pause the action, but that it will continue quickly. He will not stop how He is using her without a really good reason.

They talked about a few other things before Master-Sir took her on the grand tour, with me ordered to follow on my hands and knees. This was so much like the first night I met my Owner and He took me on a tour of His house. I kept a few paces back as He led her around the house. Telling her how He wants things and expects things. She was to take note of how the house is set up and clean. he will expect it to stay that way and it will be hers and my responsibility to keep it this way. As He did, he informed both of us that if one fails we both get the punishment.

My punishment will obviously be more harsh. The larger, harder paddle, the heavier flogger. More corner time. She will be gradually increased in how or if she is punished.

He got to the guest bedroom. This is where she will stay when He has no use for her. She will unpack her bags later. He made mention that the attached guest bathroom should be closed up since slaves do not use the bathrooms in the house. But it will be needed for friends who stop and visit to use. I could see her gsp at that idea.

She will use the slave bathroom with me. No fancy shower, or nice large toilet. Nope. The clear curtain in the shower, no door, and a tiny sink and mirror in the garage is where slaves go for their bathroom needs.

The Bedroom

Going to the second floor, I started to panic. Too many bad memories of previous submissives coming to stay here and be in the bedroom. Here, He let her know she will sleep on one side of the bed, pointing to His side and where He wants her to kneel when asking permission to get in bed or to leave the bedroom to serve. She already saw my bedroom. But was informed that most nights, i will be on the small mattress on the floor on His side of the bed.

Unlike previous visits, I am not there to serve her sexually (sigh of relief) Although I will be there to lick His cum from her pussy after sex. He emphasized the words “IF I DECIDE to use that hole.” Oh yea, Her orgasms will be regulated as well. No masturbation as well without permission. She was not happy being reminded of that rule. she was quietly huffing and puffing as He continued. I was trying not to smile too loudly!

She smiled at the large bed. Master-Sir pointed out the hooks and the chains on the frames as well as the drawers where she may be told to go fetch a toy, a butt plug or whatever implement He will want to use on her. She really liked that part of the tour.

The Moment Had Arrived

After the tour had been completed, i was told to face the corner in the bedroom where I had spent many nights as He had wonderful sex with Miss Tina. Master-Sir than told slave Lisa, He wanted to start this right. I heard Him drop His pants and clothing, instructing her to neatly fold them and place them on the dresser. He got onto the bed.

She, I figured by the noises tried to get on the bed as well. until Master-Sir told her to get off and do it right. To kneel at the bedside and wait. then to ask Permission. I smiled as I tried to imagine the surprised look on her face.

She properly asked and He, of course, allowed her on the bed. Then I heard His grip on her hair and then the sounds of a mouth going over His cock. There was a struggle. Not sure because of His size or just the fact that she was beingmade to suck His cock without warning or warmup. At least from what I heard, I knew I was better then she was at sucking a cock!

He started to moan and tell her how it felt. Telling her to swallow it all and not to choke. Its not THAT big (it is!), Telling her she will get plenty of time to get used to sucking his cock. Then I heard Him tell her that from now on, I will be watching her and being there for clean up. ” So do it right and I won’t have to have Bitch slave clean up after you”. Hmmm… He was speaking those wonderful words of humiliation!!

Many years ago, my slave-boi friend and His mistress were on the bed with Master-Sir when slave-boi was told to give my owner a blowjob. I freaked out and made a huge scene that resulted in a serious punishment that I will never forget. I always felt that of all the things he does with His lady friends, i wanted this one thing to be “ours”, Yes, i was being a selfish slave and I have been punished serveal times for how i behaved when another slave has sucked His cock.

Over time, with most of His girlfriends, I have learned to ignore them. When they go to suck His cock, i am either not in the room, or I know from conversations, that He tolerates their cock sucking skills. He has told me many times that I still rule the world when it comes to sucking His cock. However, this was the first time that a skinny, pretty female slave in training has been allowed to suck His cock while I was in the room. This is the first time where I knew that I was not going to be used for any sexual purposes with Him and that she, a younger, sexier slave would be His main source of sexual pleasures for the foreseeable future. And that I would be made to watch.

This is the moment I feared the most when i learned of her coming to live and train here. This moment has caused me a lot of sleepless nights and few panic attacks. Master-Sir had offers in the past to leave me and live a full life with a sexy, beautiful vanilla woman. Surprisingly, He turned them down because He would lose His slave in the deal. Now here He had a slave He could be training to replace me. She was younger, she was cute, a nice arm charm if needed, sexually eager to please and she wanted Him to train her as a slave. He could easily train her to be His slave. She would be a perfect reason to leave me and take her as His own.

To my surprise, I held my tongue. I did not get angry or get jealous as I heard them sexy talking and her trying to be better at swallowing His cock the way that He likes it. But I knew He was not enjoying it as He had to talk too much about how she could do it better or should do it “To please me, Your Master” . She was doing it her way, the way her other men liked it. He has standards and she was not meeting them!

After she finally got Him to cum and she swallowed it all, He dismissed her quickly. Told her to get dressed, get downstairs, get her things, unpack, then get naked and wait for Him in the kitchen,. as it was almost time for lunch. Being dismissed right after sucking a cock, was not what she was expecting. I heard her breathing a little heavier as she walked by me with a heavy walk. Upset maybe?

Once she was gone, Master-Sir walked to me, leaned over my shoulder, and congratulated me for being such an obedient slave. He told me He was worried about How I was going to handle the blowjob. He was expecting a problem. But He loved that I accepted it. I smiled and told Him she will learn to be better. His reply was “not like you” and He walked out of the room.

I was left there in the bedroom corner, alone. After a time, I’m not sure how long i stood there, but I knew Master-Sir was finished with lunch because He sent slave Lisa up to get me. I needed to show her around the kitchen and the patio area.

After I stepped away from the corner and started to stretch my muscles, she kissed me a sweet hello kiss. Telling me she didn’t get to do that when she entered the house. Smiling, she looked so cute, yet so scared. She told me she was expecting something completely different. She was expecting to be treated as that cute thing in the bedroom. She knew it wasn’t going to be like that, but she never expected “this” from moment one. I smiled and told her its not as bad as it may seem. She agreed. It’s just that she was not excepting this much control from the start. you know, work into it, not from moment one! She ended the conversation with ” I envy you for what you are and how you are so loved” and with that, we walked downstairs to finish her tour. I was smiling too much to respond.

This has started pout unlike either of us had imagined.

And I like that!

The Friend Returns For real

There has been a lot of new and exciting changes here at my Owner’s palace. Starting with His new rules for His old slave. More protocols and formal slave-like procedures. The nice thing about those is that they have been added with a large serving of love. Hugs and Kisses as He has recognized my difficulty in following what we both agree should have been added years ago. When my body was younger and more flexible! But I am adapting and learning and that is the part that i like. is the challenge this is giving me.

The biggest or the one new rule that may be the most difficult for me to obey, Master-Sir made a new rule and asked His friends to follow it starting last Monday. To only use my mouth to cum in. They may use my other two holes for fucking, but He asked not to finish in them. Use my only mouth or my face to finish. Use my mouth, leave my other two holes alone. He made sure to note that this is not a hard rule, but more of a request. He knows that I have great orgasms with anal sex and ignoring my pussy will drive me crazy. it’s not a rule to not use my other two holes. But it is a rule NOT to finish in them. They can fuck me, tease me, but only fill my mouth or finish on me or the floor and I will lick it up afterward.

At the time, He told me he had no ending date for the new rule. So I was meant to suffer without any deadline. But now that He has a cute slave for use, I see no reason why He would care for me and my misery. So I see this new rule lasting a very long time. Somewhere in that month, Miss Lisa said she wants to come back and spend a couple of weeks working from here. That news just added to what already looked like a long and cruel winter into the spring season!

Master-Sir Takes a New Slave

Yes, He will have another slave here to play with. It’s been a while since i last talked about them, now they return. Miss Tina (The Pretty Brunette), who visited us last August and stayed a month or so. During that time Her friend i named, “The Friend” came out to visit with her and that meant with us. She quickly discovered that her friend’s boyfriend had a live-in slave. That was a mouthful.

The friend shyly admitted while she was here, seeing me, that she had a life long desire to be a slave if she could ever find the right man to be Her Owner and that it would not ruin her career. A very tall order. In that visit,, she tried both sides of the leash and found she was indeed wanting to be more the slave than the Domme.

UPDATE: The Friend has asked that I use the name “Lisa” or “slave Lisa” and so going forward, she is slave Lisa and the Pretty Burnette is Miss Tina.

So last week in their online chats, Master-Sir was talking with Miss Tina, He found out that “lisa” was changing jobs thanks to Miss Tina. In fact, the new job was so that she would not lose her employment and at the same time, help in her search to find her submission, all compliments of Miss Tina.

Lisa’s new job title involves research and online sales. Something she can do from anywhere she has access to a computer and the Internet. So she has asked permission to do it from our home. As Master-Sir’s slave in training. Master-Sir has agreed. However, this all comes with some details they need to work out.

as His property, I had no say in this and I know that is how it was meant to be. It’s what I agreed to when I became His slave and His property. Yet this all hit me a little harder than I had expected. or maybe as I had hoped I would have taken the news that there will be a pretty little thing acting as His “other” slave. True, they are negotiating some pre-defined rules for her experimenting. After all, she will be living in the house that I serve in and to know that i am the lowest of the slaves. So I will serve under her. The pretty little thing with the perky tits, tight pussy, and cute smile will be submissive, yet be above me in the ranking.

They negotiated a trial run of 30 days. Actually, it was from January 20 to February 27. a little over one month. yes, they negotiated everything, or what she thinks is everything! After all, she is a “submissive in training” not one coming in trained and ready to serve. She still thinks this is more of a game than the real thing.

So far they have agreed that she doesn’t have to be naked all the time. She will be allowed to wear a short skirt and be topless. but no panties or bra. as if she needs them. She will call Him “Sir” not Master-Sir. Most nights, she will sleep with Him, I will sleep on the floor on His side or in my bedroom as He decides.

I know I’m going to be doing a lot of mental games and having a few mental sessions and that may mean some serious long and in depth journal entries here. So just be prepared. you have been properly warned!

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