On the forum board “Humbled Females” the question was asked about dating and finding your Dom in the modern world. A scary thought if there ever was one.

Thankfully, my Owner and I had and have had discussions on this subject. I told Him (yes, I made it firm) I don’t ever want to date again,. I don’t ever want to be Unowned for any reason.

So I made a response to the question mentioning my desire to never be unowned. I felt maybe I need to expand a little bit on it here.

One time a few years ago, some friends of my Owner were over and having a good time watching sports on TV in the living room. I was properly kneeling and serving a drink to one man that I adore. 

He looked at me with His very beautiful smile,  put His hand on my shoulder as he looked to my Owner, and asked “who gets your slave when you die??” 

Joking, I think. But it did start a fun little conversation on who should inherit the house slave.  Of the four men there that day, three of them offered to take me “If” that day ever comes. The other man was married and knew His wife would not approve!

One of the men was almost dead serious on how He would tell His wife who the new slave was and why they need to take her in. He would wow her with all the benefits she would enjoy having me there.

It all ended with Master-Sir laughing at the suggestions and the guesses on what would happen to me IF my Owner were to die before me.

He ended the conversation during an intermission before the last play of the game. He made it very clear He has already chosen my new owner. It is spelled out clearly for all the world to see when His Last Will and Testament is read at His lawyer’s office! And Not One Minute Before then!  

Looking back in this blog, I see again I am missing some posts that were lost. Part of what is lost is the posts talking about meeting and serving with my Owner’s first slave.

By the time I met her, she had lost her lifelong Master ten years before and was living alone in a nearby city. In her sixties and she was scared to death.

Master-Sir took her in and we cared for her, with another Master friend until she passed away a couple of years later.

Her Master never planned for his demise and for her life after. And that has always haunted me. She, like myself, was a devoted slave in every fiber of her soul. She served Him without question and loved Him with her entire being.

I think seeing her and having to help her the way we did, had an impact on my Owner. So we had multiple conversations about “What if” . What if I was to end up like her? How can that be prevented?

I know my Master has some trustworthy friends who could be great Owners of an old, well-used, and obedient slave. None of His friends could be ruled out as future caretakers of me. They are all that wonderful.

Although I never want to lose Him, nor do I want to start life over without Him for any reason, He has offered and I have accepted the man He chose to be my Owner if/when He dies or becomes incapacitated.

There is no doubt that I would grieve for His loss and hold Him in my heart for every day of my life. But we both know life needs to be lived and that I need to move forward. For me, I need to serve and be used.

I feel blessed and very happy to know that I will be well owned and used for the rest of my life. That I will never have to worry about having to live alone.

I will never be Unowned!